The Ultimate Guide to Swinging in London: Top Clubs and Events

We often get asked about the best swinger clubs and events in London, so we’ve put together this comprehensive guide. Whether you’re a local or visiting, here’s everything you need to know about exploring the swinging scene in the UK’s capital, Swinging In London, England.

London’s Major Swinger Clubs

Abfabs/Kestrels

• Location: Next to Heathrow Airport Terminal 5
• A converted gym with ample space, including London’s largest dark room. Friendly and well-run. Kestrels spa is open every day; Abfabs club on certain evenings. The club is open to guests 25 years and older
• Address: Heathrow Airport, Terminal 5, London, UK
• Website: Abfabs/Kestrels
• Parking: Car park for 20-25 cars
• Age Range: 20-70, average early 50s on weekdays, upper 40s on Saturdays.
• Ethnicities: Diverse mix, including White, Indian/South Asian, Afro-Caribbean, and Asian.
• Body Types: All body types
• Club Capacity: 200-300 people.
• Busyness: Quiet during daytime; busy on Fridays and Saturdays.
• Membership Requirements: Required, with registration and photo ID.
• Dress Code: Casual for spa hours, club attire for Abfab hours.

Hellfire

• Location: Sunbury
• London’s oldest swinger’s (and Kink heavy) club with themed playrooms, a large dungeon space, and unique features like an American truck for in-club dogging.
• Address: Sunbury, UK
• Website: Hellfire
• Parking: Plentiful
• Age Range: 30-80, average early 50s.
• Ethnicities: Predominantly White, with Indian/South Asian, Afro-Caribbean, and Asian members.
• Body Types: All body types.
• Club Capacity: Around 200 people.
• Busyness: Can be empty or busy, especially during event nights.
• Membership Requirements: None required, tickets bought through the website.
• Dress Code: Standard club attire, fetishwear accepted.

Le Boudoir – London’s #1 Swingers Club

• Location: Aldgate East
• Exclusive club requiring photo approval, with a classy atmosphere, multiple floors including themed rooms and ample dungeon kink space. Located right in the heart of London near a tube station and therefore is the most convenient to attend if you’re staying in London City.
• Address: Aldgate East, London, UK
• Website: Le Boudoir
• Parking: Public transport recommended (the tube is very convenient)
• Age Range: 20-50, mostly early 40s.
• Ethnicities: Mostly White, Middle Eastern, and Afro-Caribbean.
• Body Types: A more asthetically pleasing crowd with the attendees being approved / curated for membership.
• Club Capacity: 150-200 people.
• Busyness: Busy on Saturday nights, Thursday nights are themed and often busy with Friday varied in guest volumes
• Membership Requirements: Membership must be submitted with photos required, approval at the descretion of ownership.
• Dress Code: Very strict, with smart attire.
• YouTube WalkThrough – There is a full walkthrough on YouTube of this club, check it out here

Ourplace4fun

• Location: N22
• A small, women-run club with a friendly atmosphere. Excellent for soft swinging, with inspired layouts and no private rooms.
• Website: Ourplace4fun
• Parking: Plentiful and free
• Age Range: 20-65.
• Ethnicities: Mostly White, South Asian/Indian, Afro-Caribbean, and Asian.
• Body Types: All body types.
• Club Capacity: 30-60 people.
• Busyness: Varies significantly.
• Membership Requirements: Advanced membership required.
• Dress Code: Typical club wear.

Rios Spa

• Location: Kentish Town
• A swinger spa with couples-only times
• Address: Kentish Town, London, UK
• Website: Rios Spa
• Ethnicities: Mixed.
• Body Types: All body types
• Membership Requirements: None required.
• Dress Code: Nude or swimwear.

Simple Pleasure

• Location: Wembley
• A converted house with a focus on female-led consent. Quiet, attractive clientele, and no private playrooms.
• Address: Wembley, London, UK
• Website: Simple Pleasure
• Age Range: 20-40.
• Ethnicities: Mostly White, inclusive atmosphere.
• Body Types: Younger crowd.
• Club Capacity: Around 100 people.
• Busyness: Generally quieter.
• Membership Requirements: Approval required for tickets.
• Dress Code: Smart attire.

Major Recurring Events and Parties

• Heaven Circle
• Killing Kittens – London, Europe, Miami and New York-based events.
  • We’ve reviewed the Killing Kittens Mansion Party in April 2024 which you can read here
• Sutton House – Private parties in Sutton, known for luxury and varied events
• Wanderlust Swingers – We host quarterly takeovers and events in the UK with co-hosts bed hoppers Podcast Mr and Mrs H. Operating takeovers within London City and greater London, check out our events tab to see our next event.

Fetish Events

For fetish based content and events, we recommend checking our FetLife a site dedicated to more kink and fetish friendly people.

• Bizarre Events
• LAM
• Liquid Love and Lady Liquid Love
• Pedestal
• Torture Garden

Swingers Dating Sites

If you’re looking to find other Swingers in London we have some recommendations just for you. Some of these recommendations require monthly payments, others are free or with VIP membership which enables more interaction the sites.

Spicy Match – Historically a European focused dating site now offering memberships in the UK, get 12 months free using the banner below. With over 25,000 members already in the UK, we highly recommend creating a free profile. (web and mobile)

Fab Swingers – The oldest Swingers Dating Site in London and most dominent in the market, offering a free or paid profile. (web only)

WeAreX – Mobile phone app owned by Killing Kittens, membership is required before purchasing tickets for a Killing Kittens Event. (mobile only)

SwingHub – Mobile phone app owned by Vista Wife and Gage, social media influencers and OnlyFans creators, launched in 2023 with a younger content creator demographic. Free and paid profiles are available (mobile phone)

Wrapping Up

London offers a diverse and exciting swinging scene. Whether you’re new to the lifestyle or a seasoned swinger, there’s something for everyone. Trust your instincts, stay safe, and enjoy exploring the best of swinging in London. If you’re keen to check out clubs and events in Greater England, keep an eye on our blog or check out our podcast

Remember to check the specific websites for the latest updates and event details. If you have any suggestions or spot any errors, feel free to reach out to us. Happy swinging!