Wicked Fun Club : What happens when a private, members-only club for consenting adults is deemed a threat by its local government?
That’s the question at the heart of a legal and cultural battle now unfolding in Plymouth, Connecticut, where Wicked Fun Club, a lifestyle venue owned by Steve Gagne, has been ordered to shut its doors by the town’s zoning officials. The accusation? That it is operating outside the allowed use of its building—even though the club is a private space for vetted members, run discreetly, and situated in a leased location with a valid commercial agreement.
But the underlying issue isn’t really about zoning. It’s about prejudice, fear, and control.
Wicked Fun Club
Wicked Fun Club moved into its Terryville location just five months ago. It operates as a private, members-only lifestyle club—not open to the public, not advertised on street signs, and entirely based around consent, adult connection, and respectful exploration.
However, in early April 2025, the Town of Plymouth issued a cease and desist order, claiming the club was in violation of zoning regulations. According to the town’s building inspector, the venue was being used in a way inconsistent with what is permitted in that commercial zone.
As Steve explained in interviews with local media, he has a three-year lease, has made considerable investments in the property, and has done nothing illegal. In fact, his business is registered, taxes are paid, and no complaints have been filed from attendees.
“We’re not breaking any laws,” Gagne told NBC Connecticut. “We are a private club for consenting adults. Nothing happens here that people don’t agree to, and we’re not advertising on Main Street. This is about judgment, not zoning.”
— NBC Connecticut
The Church, the Landlord, and the Politics
Much of the controversy seems to center around the parking lot between the club and a neighboring church. While the Wicked Fun Club operates only during evening and night hours, church services are held earlier in the day. According to Steve, there’s no overlap, and no disruptions have been reported.
“The church didn’t know what kind of business was next door until recently,” one local report noted. “After discovering it was a swingers club, some community members began to raise concerns—not about noise or safety, but about morality.”
— CT Insider
That moral panic appears to be fueling the mayor’s aggressive response. It’s worth noting that Wicked Fun Club passed inspections, paid rent, and complied with all lease terms.
What Law Is Being Broken?
None, according to Steve and supporters of the club.
This is not a brothel. This is not a public event venue. This is not an unlicensed commercial operation. This is a private social club for adults who consent to be part of a vetted community. The only “violation” is that some people in power believe that swingers—or anyone practicing ethical non-monogamy—shouldn’t exist in their town.
“This is about community values versus adult freedom,” said one supporter. “And it sets a dangerous precedent.”
— Yahoo News
Why This Should Scare You (Even If You’re Not in CT)
This story isn’t just about one club in one town. It’s about a pattern of how consensual adult spaces are under constant threat—not because they’re harmful, but because they challenge traditional norms.
This could be your favorite play party.
Your local kink-friendly meetup.
A non-monogamy discussion group in a small-town venue.
A sex-positive wellness retreat.
If one club can be shut down without due process, under vague morality-based claims, so can others.
It sends a chilling message: “If we don’t like what you do privately, we’ll find a way to stop you.”
The Bigger Picture: Community, Consent, and Safety
Private venues like Wicked Fun are integral to the non-monogamous and alternative sexuality community. They provide safe, curated, and respectful spaces for adults to connect without judgment. They reduce risk, protect privacy, and build trust among members.
When these spaces are erased, people are forced underground. They lose the structure, safety protocols, and peer oversight that comes with being in community. And that makes everyone more vulnerable.
“This isn’t just about one club being shut down. It’s about whether the non-monogamous community is allowed to safely and privately exist without fear or stigma. When one space gets pushed into the shadows, we all feel it.”
— Cate, Wanderlust Swingers Podcast
What Can You Do?
- Follow Wicked Fun Club visit their site to show support.
- Share the story in your lifestyle groups or networks. Awareness matters.
- Support organizations like NCSF (ncsfreedom.org) that advocate for sexual freedom, privacy, and rights.
- Push for zoning reform and legal clarity in your own communities—before it becomes reactive.
- Speak up. Whether it’s a review, a post, or a conversation—don’t let stigma speak louder than us.
Listen to the Podcast Interview
Hear directly from Steve Gagne on our latest podcast episode:
🎙️ “Fighting for Freedom: Wicked Fun Club vs. the Town of Plymouth” Listen here →
🖤 Final Thoughts
We cannot afford to be silent when our spaces are taken from us. Whether you swing, explore kink, practice polyamory, or simply believe in freedom of expression, sexual privacy, and consensual adult community—this is your fight, too.
The lifestyle community is not going away. But we do need to stay informed, connected, and vocal.
Let’s make sure Wicked Fun Club is the last space that gets targeted—not the first in a wave.
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