Author: Cate
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Soft Swap Swinging – Why Playing Off-Script Might Be the Sexiest Thing You Do This Year
Soft Swap the New Sexy? After a seven-year hiatus, my partner and I recently revisited the world of soft swap at the iconic Fun4Two swingers club in the Netherlands. What we thought might be a “warm-up” quickly became one of the hottest, most connected nights we’ve had in the lifestyle. With moans, massages, and some… Read more
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Diddy Swinging – We DO NOT Claim Him, Abuse Is NOT Swinging
The recent allegations against Sean ‘Diddy’ Combs have wrongly linked him to the swinger lifestyle. The ‘Diddy swinging’ defense is dangerous and misleading. The recent legal firestorm surrounding Sean “Diddy” Combs has captured public attention. As reported by USA Today, Rolling Out, MSN, and AOL, Diddy faces serious allegations of sex crimes, assault, and misconduct… Read more
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Fighting for Freedom: Why the Wicked Fun Club Shutdown Should Matter to All of Us
Wicked Fun Club : What happens when a private, members-only club for consenting adults is deemed a threat by its local government? That’s the question at the heart of a legal and cultural battle now unfolding in Plymouth, Connecticut, where Wicked Fun Club, a lifestyle venue owned by Steve Gagne, has been ordered to shut… Read more
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Shakopee Swingers – Safety, Stigma, and Crisis Management
Shakopee Swingers – 1st January 2025 The recent tragic deaths of two attendees at a lifestyle event in Shakopee have sent shockwaves through our community, raising critical questions about safety, stigma, and responsibility. As members of the non-monogamous and swingers lifestyle, it is imperative that we reflect on these incidents to ensure safer spaces, challenge… Read more
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What I thought a Swingers Hotel Takeover was v’s what I know now!
When I first heard the term “swingers hotel takeover,” my mind ran wild with possibilities. It sounded like something out of a hot Game of Thrones episode or something you read about in Roman/Greek history, or a daring adventure that could push the boundaries of fun and freedom. Was it a luxurious retreat where like-minded,… Read more
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Exploring the UK’s Kink Map: How Swingers and Fetish Lovers Collide at Penthouse Playrooms
The intersection of swinging and fetish culture in England is a fascinating blend of exploration, excitement, and community. A recent study by Clips4Sale, a leading platform for fetish content, reveals the most popular fetishes across major UK cities. From Birmingham’s love of latex to Manchester’s infatuation with roleplay, the data offers a glimpse into what… Read more
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The Great Upside-Down Pineapple Debate: Carnival Cruise Cracks Down on Swinger Lifestyle Signals
Carnival Cruise Cracks Down on Swinger Lifestyle Signals – If you’ve ever been curious about cruising culture and the little “secrets” onboard, you may have heard whispers about the upside-down pineapple. A symbol often associated with the swinger lifestyle, its appearance on cruise ship doors has sparked endless debates—and most recently, a firm response from… Read more
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Are DTF Swingers Really Just More Fun? Exploring the “Down to Fuck” Approach in the Lifestyle
The swinger lifestyle is all about exploring connections, intimacy, and play. But few topics spark as much curiosity (or debate) as the concept of “DTF swingers” — couples who identify as “Down to F*ck.” For some, DTF represents a straightforward, exciting way to meet new people, while for others, it’s a nuanced approach with boundaries… Read more
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International Sex Toy Day: Pleasure, History, Where they’re illegal!
November 4th marks International Sex Toy Day, a celebration dedicated to embracing sexual wellness and the diverse array of devices that enhance intimate experiences. This day encourages open conversations about sexuality, promotes safe practices, and acknowledges the rich history and cultural significance of sex toys. A Glimpse into the History of Sex Toys The use… Read more
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Swinging In Canda – The Ultimate Guide
Swinging in Canada has grown into a fun, vibrant, and diverse community, perfect for anyone curious about exploring consensual non-monogamy. Whether you’re in a bustling city or a quiet countryside, you’ll find Canadians are warm, sexy and welcoming. In this guide, I’ll break down everything you need to know about swinging in Canada. Covering its… Read more