Category: Swinger Education
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Swingers Event Hosting Isn’t For the Weak!
Thinking of hosting a swingers event? Whether it’s a sexy hotel takeover, a private house party, or a lifestyle-themed weekend retreat, there’s more to it than themed nights and playroom playlists. Behind every successful swingers event is a team of hosts juggling logistics, guest expectations, bodily fluids, and sometimes… literal lightning strikes. In this blog, Read more
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How to Small Talk at Swingers Clubs and Lifestyle Events
Struggling to break the ice at lifestyle events? We’ve got you covered. From compliments to curiosity, this guide helps you master the art of small talk in the swinging scene — without sounding like you’re in a job interview. Read more
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Soft Swap Swinging – Why Playing Off-Script Might Be the Sexiest Thing You Do This Year
Soft Swap the New Sexy? After a seven-year hiatus, my partner and I recently revisited the world of soft swap at the iconic Fun4Two swingers club in the Netherlands. What we thought might be a “warm-up” quickly became one of the hottest, most connected nights we’ve had in the lifestyle. With moans, massages, and some Read more
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Shakopee Swingers – Safety, Stigma, and Crisis Management
Shakopee Swingers – 1st January 2025 The recent tragic deaths of two attendees at a lifestyle event in Shakopee have sent shockwaves through our community, raising critical questions about safety, stigma, and responsibility. As members of the non-monogamous and swingers lifestyle, it is imperative that we reflect on these incidents to ensure safer spaces, challenge Read more
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What I thought a Swingers Hotel Takeover was v’s what I know now!
When I first heard the term “swingers hotel takeover,” my mind ran wild with possibilities. It sounded like something out of a hot Game of Thrones episode or something you read about in Roman/Greek history, or a daring adventure that could push the boundaries of fun and freedom. Was it a luxurious retreat where like-minded, Read more
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Are DTF Swingers Really Just More Fun? Exploring the “Down to Fuck” Approach in the Lifestyle
The swinger lifestyle is all about exploring connections, intimacy, and play. But few topics spark as much curiosity (or debate) as the concept of “DTF swingers” — couples who identify as “Down to F*ck.” For some, DTF represents a straightforward, exciting way to meet new people, while for others, it’s a nuanced approach with boundaries Read more
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International Sex Toy Day: Pleasure, History, Where they’re illegal!
November 4th marks International Sex Toy Day, a celebration dedicated to embracing sexual wellness and the diverse array of devices that enhance intimate experiences. This day encourages open conversations about sexuality, promotes safe practices, and acknowledges the rich history and cultural significance of sex toys. A Glimpse into the History of Sex Toys The use Read more
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5 Tips to Avoid Ghosting and 5 Ways to Stay Positive When Swinger Plans Don’t Go as Planned
5 Top Tips to Avoid Being Ghosted in the Lifestyle 5 Top Tips for Staying Positive When Swinger Plans Don’t Work Out Catch the Full Episode Here In this episode of the Wanderlust Swingers Podcast, we dive into those inevitable moments when swinging doesn’t go quite as planned—from pool party flops to being ghosted by Read more
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The 1 Penis Policy in the Swingers Lifestyle : A BIG Red Flag?
Swinging, often misunderstood, is a lifestyle choice where couples consensually engage in sexual activities with others. It’s a practice built on mutual trust, communication, and clear boundaries. Within this community, various dynamics and rules can emerge, one of which is the “1 Penis Policy” (OPP). What is the 1 Penis Policy (OPP)? The 1 Penis Read more