Last updated: October 2026 · By Cate from Wanderlust Swingers, who has visited over 40 swingers clubs and hosts lifestyle takeovers in Texas.
The best swingers clubs in Texas in 2026 are in Houston, which has the biggest scene in the state, followed by Dallas–Fort Worth, Austin and San Antonio. Highlights include colette (four Texas cities), The Night Game and The Pendulum Club in Houston, and colette Dallas and Club Eden in DFW. Almost every Texas club is BYOB and members-only, so sign up before you go.
Texas is huge, and the lifestyle here works city by city. Houston to Dallas is a four-hour drive, so treat each metro as its own scene. Tap a city on the map, then read our notes on what each club is actually like.
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Pins show the area, not exact addresses. Many Texas clubs only share their address once you sign up.
The Texas swingers scene: what it’s really like
Texas has one of the largest lifestyle communities in the US, but it is spread across a state the size of a small country. There is no single “Texas scene”. There are four strong city scenes, a handful of rural ranches and resorts, and a busy calendar of hotel takeovers that move between them.
A few things are true almost everywhere in Texas:
- BYOB is the norm. Most clubs don’t sell alcohol. You bring your own and the bar provides mixers and service.
- Membership comes first. Nearly every club requires a membership, and some only release their address after approval. Sign up online a few days before your trip.
- Saturday is couples night. Many clubs admit single men on quieter nights but keep Saturdays for couples and single women.
- colette is the one chain. colette has clubs in Houston, Dallas, Austin and San Antonio, and one membership works at all four, which is handy if you’re road-tripping.
Why trust Wanderlust Swingers? We’ve partied at over 40 swingers clubs around the world, host international lifestyle events including takeovers in Texas, and keep this guide updated as clubs open and close.
How to meet other swingers in Texas
SDC
The biggest swingers site in Texas by a distance, and where most clubs and takeovers advertise. Post a travel notice a week or two before your trip and you’ll usually have couples to meet before you even land.
Join SDC with free premium accessOur link or code 32122Kasidie
Smaller in Texas than SDC but popular with event-goers. Worth a second travel notice if you want to cast a wider net.
Try Kasidie freeSwingers clubs in Houston
Houston is the lifestyle capital of Texas, with more clubs than anywhere else in the state. Most are spread around the suburbs rather than downtown, so plan on driving or ride-sharing between them.
colette Houston
Northwest Houston (FM 1960 / Cypress Creek Pkwy) · On-premise lifestyle nightclub
A purpose-built club of around 7,000 sq ft. The front half runs like a proper nightclub with a DJ, lighting and a dance floor; the play areas sit behind it, including a voyeur room, a theatre-style room and private rooms. Themed nights run through the month, and one colette membership covers all four Texas locations.
- Open
- Wed–Sat from 9pm
- Couples
- $30–$70 door + membership
- Membership
- $30 one-night trial, $200/yr
- Drinks
- BYOB, mixers provided
- Single men
- Wed–Fri only. Saturday is couples & single ladies
- Best for: First-timers and couples who want a polished nightclub with play space attached.
- Expect: Dance-floor energy first, play later. Saturday is the couples night.
- Skip it if: You want a small, intimate house-party feel.
The Night Game
Houston · On-premise lifestyle nightclub, kink-friendly
Opened in 2019 by the Brown family and billed by the club as the largest adult playground in Texas. It welcomes a broader mix than most couples-focused clubs, with kink and BDSM spaces alongside the swinger side.
- Drinks
- BYOB
- Crowd
- LGBTQ+ friendly, kink and BDSM welcome
- Since
- 2019, family-owned
- Best for: Couples who want size, variety and room to explore kink.
- Expect: A wider, more mixed crowd than couples-forward clubs.
- Skip it if: You only want a traditional couples swap club.
The Pendulum Club
Three Houston-area clubs: Northwest (Fairbanks), South (Hobby) and North (Spring) · Women-owned on-premise clubs
A women-owned and run group with three clubs around Houston, so there is usually one within reach wherever you are staying. Reviewers keep coming back to the same point: the clubs are spotless, especially the play areas.
- Locations
- Northwest Houston, Pendulum South near Hobby, Pendulum North in Spring
- Drinks
- BYOB
- Crowd
- Couples-focused, newbie-friendly
- Owners
- Women-owned and operated
- Best for: Newer couples who want a clean, welcoming, couples-first room.
- Expect: A friendlier, lower-pressure feel than the big nightclub venues.
- Skip it if: You want big-production nightclub energy.
XCLUSIV Lifestyle (XL)
Houston · Members-only upscale club
A members-only club positioned at the upscale end of Houston’s scene, with a cashless setup and BYOB bar service.
- Entry
- Members only
- Drinks
- BYOB
- Payments
- Cashless
- Best for: Couples who like a vetted, members-only environment.
- Expect: Membership sign-up before your first visit.
- Skip it if: You want to walk in on a whim.
Swingers clubs in Dallas–Fort Worth
DFW is spread out, with venues in Dallas itself, the mid-cities around Euless and the southern suburbs. Euless is the most convenient base if you are flying into DFW airport.
colette Dallas
10821 Composite Dr, Dallas, TX 75220 · On-premise lifestyle nightclub
The Dallas branch of the colette group: a members-only, couples-forward club with the same nightclub-plus-playrooms format as Houston. Your colette membership works here too.
- Entry
- Members only
- Drinks
- BYOB
- Crowd
- Couples-forward, upscale
- Best for: Couples who liked colette elsewhere, or want a predictable, polished night.
- Expect: Nightclub first, play areas later in the night.
- Skip it if: You want a house-party or resort vibe.
Club Eden DFW
Euless (between Dallas and Fort Worth) · Private members-only lifestyle nightclub
A private lifestyle nightclub in Euless, handy for both Dallas and Fort Worth and close to DFW airport, which makes it an easy option for travelling couples.
- Entry
- Members only
- Drinks
- BYOB
- Crowd
- Couples-friendly
- Best for: Couples flying into DFW or splitting time between Dallas and Fort Worth.
- Expect: A members-only club night.
- Skip it if: You want something walkable from downtown Dallas.
Summer’s Home for Wayward Swingers
Dallas · Home-style on-premise venue
A discreet, home-style venue with a reputation for welcoming newcomers. Think house party rather than nightclub.
- Drinks
- BYOB
- Crowd
- Newbie-friendly, discreet
- Best for: Nervous first-timers who want a relaxed, low-key start.
- Expect: A smaller, more personal crowd.
- Skip it if: You want a big dance floor and production.
Infliction Hall
11050 S Pipeline Rd, Euless · BDSM dungeon and kink community
A dedicated dungeon space for the kink community with themed nights. This is a kink venue first and a swinger venue second.
- Focus
- BDSM, dungeon play
- Nights
- Themed party nights
- Best for: Couples into BDSM or curious to watch and learn.
- Expect: Rules, etiquette and dungeon equipment.
- Skip it if: You want a classic swingers club night.
Swingers clubs in Austin
Austin has one main club, colette, plus The Sweet Spot ATX for smaller ticketed parties, and Shrine’s kink nights hosted at colette.
colette Austin
13800 Dragline Dr, Austin, TX 78728 · Upscale on-premise club
Austin’s main fixed swingers club, run by the same group as colette Houston, Dallas and San Antonio. If you are only in Austin for a weekend, this is the obvious first stop.
- Drinks
- BYOB
- Crowd
- Couples-friendly, upscale
- Best for: Visiting couples who want a dependable night out.
- Expect: The colette format: dance floor up front, playrooms behind.
- Skip it if: You want something small and quirky.
The Sweet Spot ATX
Austin · Ticketed lifestyle parties
A smaller Austin venue running ticketed lifestyle parties, with its own dress code and etiquette rules published up front. Tickets must be bought in advance and are non-refundable.
- Tickets
- Advance only, no door sales, no refunds
- House rules
- Alcohol and 420-friendly, no other substances
- Before you go
- Dress code and etiquette guide on their site
- Best for: Couples who want a smaller, party-style alternative to the club.
- Expect: Buy tickets ahead and read the house rules first.
- Skip it if: You like deciding on the night or paying at the door.
Swingers clubs in San Antonio
San Antonio is a smaller scene with two fixed clubs, and only an hour and a half from Austin, so many couples combine the two in one trip.
colette San Antonio
San Antonio (formerly the Players Club) · On-premise lifestyle club and dance club
This is the old Players Club, one of San Antonio’s longest-running lifestyle clubs, which was sold and relaunched as colette. It now runs the colette dance-club format and is one of the more newcomer-friendly options in the city. We’ve been: watch our video tour below.
- Drinks
- BYOB
- Crowd
- Newbie-friendly, upscale
- Best for: First-timers and couples combining San Antonio with Austin.
- Expect: Dance floor first, play areas later.
- Skip it if: You want a resort or day-time pool scene.
Club Eden San Antonio
San Antonio · Private members-only lifestyle nightclub
The San Antonio sister club to Club Eden DFW, giving the city a second fixed club alongside colette.
- Entry
- Members only
- Best for: Couples who want a second San Antonio option, or already know Eden from DFW.
- Expect: A members-only club night, so sign up in advance.
- Skip it if: You want a resort or daytime pool scene.
Our video tour of colette San Antonio (the former Players Club):
Swingers resorts and ranches in Texas
Texas doesn’t have a big Secrets-style resort like Florida, but it does have private ranches and rural resorts, mostly in East Texas and around DFW. Most run on an events calendar rather than opening every weekend, so check dates before you drive out.
Oasis Estate Resort
Houston area · Members-only lifestyle resort
The only lifestyle resort currently listed in the Houston area: a private, members-only estate run as an all-inclusive, resort-style experience rather than a nightclub.
- Entry
- Members only
- Style
- All-inclusive, resort-style
- Best for: Couples who want a day-to-night resort experience without flying to Mexico.
- Expect: A slower, social, resort pace.
- Skip it if: You want a late-night club crowd.
Emerald Lakes Resort
Houston area · Lifestyle resort
A Houston-area lifestyle resort. Right now its website carries a notice that guests must remain clothed, so the experience may be quite different from what older reviews describe. Check the latest rules before you book.
- Heads up
- A notice on their website says guests must currently stay clothed
- Best for: Couples who want a social, resort-style day out near Houston.
- Expect: Clothed-only rules for now, so treat it as social rather than play.
- Skip it if: You are looking for a clothing-optional or on-premise play night.
The Barehide Ranch
Poolville (west of Fort Worth) · Lifestyle ranch hosting events
A rural lifestyle ranch outside Fort Worth that is still running a regular events calendar. A good escape from the city if you are based in DFW.
- Status
- Open and hosting events
- Distance
- About an hour west of Fort Worth
- Best for: DFW couples who want a ranch weekend instead of a club night.
- Expect: Event-based dates, so check the calendar before you drive out.
- Skip it if: You want a walk-in club in the city.
Live Oak Resort
Washington (between Houston and Austin) · Lifestyle resort with events
A rural resort roughly between Houston and Austin with an events calendar on its website, which makes it an easy weekend trip from either city.
- Status
- Open with events listed
- Location
- Rural, between Houston and Austin
- Best for: Houston or Austin couples who want a weekend away.
- Expect: A resort-style, events-led weekend.
- Skip it if: You want late-night city clubbing.
Purple Peacock Resort & Club Birdcage
Palestine, East Texas · Clothing-optional campground with a swingers nightclub
A clothing-optional, adults-only campground in East Texas with its own swingers nightclub, Club Birdcage, on site. Camp or park the RV by day, then walk to the club at night.
- Stay
- Adults-only, clothing-optional campground and RV park
- Nightlife
- Club Birdcage, the on-site swingers club
- Best for: Couples who like camping, nudity and a club night in one place.
- Expect: A rural, laid-back campground feel by day.
- Skip it if: You want hotel-level comfort.
The Kraken Resort
Trinity, East Texas · Lifestyle resort with events
An East Texas lifestyle resort that is very much open, with a regular programme of events. Not to be confused with Kraken Ranch in Florida.
- Status
- Operating with a regular events calendar
- Best for: Couples who want an event weekend away from the big cities.
- Expect: Event-based weekends, so book around the calendar.
- Skip it if: You want something in the city.
Swingers clubs in the rest of Texas
Outside the four big metros the options thin out quickly. West Texas has a couple of long-running local venues, but confirm they are still operating before you drive out.
- TinboxxxLubbock. West Texas lifestyle venue.
- Quiet Encounters (Walter’s Encounters)El Paso. El Paso lifestyle venue.
Hotel takeovers and lifestyle events in Texas
For many Texas couples the best nights aren’t at a club at all. Hotel takeovers and community events move around the state and often draw a bigger, more social crowd than a regular club night.
Libertine Events
Dallas, Austin, Houston and San Antonio · Upscale hotel takeovers
Full disclosure: Libertine Events is ours. We take over whole boutique hotels for curated weekends with themed parties, a clothing-optional pool and a vetted, couples-first crowd, and host them in Texas cities from time to time.
- Best for: Couples who want a whole weekend, not just a club night.
- Expect: High production, a social crowd and plenty of space to play.
- Skip it if: You want the cheapest night out.
Krewe of Swingtown (KOS)
Houston-based, events across Texas · Lifestyle community and events
A long-running Houston community that hosts parties and events rather than running a single fixed club. Known for being inclusive and body-positive.
- Crowd
- Newbie-friendly, inclusive, body-positive
- Where
- Houston plus statewide events
- Best for: Couples who want community and regular events, not just a club night.
- Expect: A social, people-first crowd.
- Skip it if: You want a polished venue with the same room every week.
The Group in Keller
DFW area, rotating hotels · Hotel floor takeovers
A DFW group that takes over hotel floors rather than running a fixed club, so the venue changes from event to event.
- Venue
- Rotating hotels, no fixed clubhouse
- Best for: Couples who prefer hotel parties to clubs.
- Expect: Details released to members ahead of each event.
- Skip it if: You want the same venue every time.
Illuminaughty Austin
Austin · Lifestyle event organizer
An Austin event host known for welcoming, low-pressure parties with a strong consent focus.
- Crowd
- Newbie-friendly, consent-focused, low-pressure
- Best for: First-timers and couples who want a gentle introduction.
- Expect: A social, educational feel.
- Skip it if: You want a high-intensity party.
Shrine Austin
Hosted at colette Austin · Kink and fetish event nights
Not a separate club: Shrine is a kink and fetish event brand that hosts its nights at colette Austin. Worth timing your visit around if you are kinky or curious.
- Venue
- Runs its nights at colette Austin
- Focus
- Fetish, BDSM, dungeon play
- Best for: Kinky couples, or the kink-curious who want a structured night.
- Expect: Fetish dress and dungeon etiquette on Shrine nights.
- Skip it if: You are looking for a standard swingers club night.
- Other Texas takeover brands
- Splash Takeovers HoustonHouston. A big, budget-friendly couples takeover held once a year.
- Decadence BallDallas. An annual New Year’s Eve hotel takeover.
- Desirous Party (Purgatory)Houston. An annual Houston hotel takeover.
Want more than a night out? See all our upcoming takeovers, events and group trips, including our group on the November 2027 Bliss Cruise.
Texas swingers clubs that have closed
Texas clubs come and go, and a lot of older guides still list venues that no longer exist. These have closed, so don’t plan a night around them:
- Club Choices, Houston
- Desires, Houston
- Playhouse Dallas (also known as Wicked Manor), Duncanville
- Velvet Curtain, Dallas
One name change to know: the Players Club in San Antonio didn’t close. It was sold and is now colette San Antonio.
Spotted a closure or a new club we’ve missed? Let us know and we’ll update the guide.
Swinging in Texas: practical advice
- Join clubs online first. Membership approval can take a day or two, and some addresses are only shared once you’re approved.
- Pack your own drinks. Bring what you’ll drink plus a cooler. Most clubs label and store bottles for you.
- Check the night, not just the club. The crowd changes a lot between a Wednesday singles night and a Saturday couples night.
- Plan for the drive. Houston to Dallas is about four hours and Austin to San Antonio about ninety minutes. Base yourself near the club, not downtown.
- Be wary of brand-new “exclusive” parties. If it has no history, no real photos and no reviews, slow down.
The bottom line
Texas rewards couples who pick a city and plan ahead. Houston has the most choice, DFW is easiest for travellers, and Austin and San Antonio pair nicely in one trip. For a first visit, colette in any city is the safe bet; for a weekend to remember, look at a hotel takeover.
Frequently asked questions about swinging in Texas
What are the best swingers clubs in San Antonio?
San Antonio has two fixed clubs: colette San Antonio, which used to be the Players Club, and Club Eden San Antonio. Austin is only ninety minutes away if you want more options.
How many swingers clubs are there in Texas?
Around 17 lifestyle clubs, resorts and event groups were operating across Texas in 2026, with the biggest concentration in Houston, followed by Dallas–Fort Worth, Austin and San Antonio. Clubs open and close regularly, so always check a venue’s website before you go.
What are the best swingers clubs in Houston?
Popular Houston options include colette Houston, The Night Game, The Pendulum Club and XCLUSIV Lifestyle. colette and The Pendulum Club are good for first-timers, while The Night Game suits couples who want size and kink-friendly spaces.
What are the best swingers clubs in Dallas?
In Dallas–Fort Worth, colette Dallas and Club Eden DFW in Euless are the main clubs. Summer’s Home is a relaxed option for newcomers, and Infliction Hall is the go-to for BDSM.
Are Texas swingers clubs BYOB?
Yes, almost all of them. Most Texas lifestyle clubs don’t sell alcohol, so you bring your own and the club provides mixers, ice and bar service.
Do you need a membership for swingers clubs in Texas?
Usually, yes. Most clubs require a membership or trial membership, and some only share their address after you’re approved. Sign up online a few days before your visit.
Can single men go to swingers clubs in Texas?
Some clubs admit single men on certain nights at a higher price, but Saturdays are often couples and single women only. colette Houston, for example, admits single men Wednesday to Friday only.
Are there swingers resorts in Texas?
Yes, but they are smaller than resorts in Florida or Mexico. Options include Oasis Estate near Houston, Live Oak Resort between Houston and Austin, The Barehide Ranch west of Fort Worth, and The Kraken Resort and Purple Peacock (with its Club Birdcage nightclub) in East Texas. Most run on an events calendar, so check dates first.
How do I meet swingers in Texas?
SDC is the largest swingers site in Texas. Post a travel notice before your trip, and consider Kasidie too. Hotel takeovers such as Libertine Events are another easy way to meet a lot of couples in one weekend.
Which Texas swingers clubs have closed?
Club Choices and Desires in Houston, Playhouse Dallas (Wicked Manor) and Velvet Curtain in Dallas are no longer operating, even though some older guides still list them. The Players Club in San Antonio was sold and is now colette San Antonio.